untrusting customers

[mark]

I have this very starange customer she bought a ring from me about 3 weeks ago and gave me a post dated check to be cashed one week later i normally don't take checks but she seemed honest so i took it .it did clear the check was fine.
last week she calls the promoter of the show and wanted to get hold of me the promoter called me with her phone number that was just fine by me.she then says that she bought a ring from me and wanted to exchange it for another size, i said thats ok as long as you didn't wear it < then she begins to tell me her friends just love it<i think humm you didn't wear it then how your friends notice this ring.?>i think ok maybe she wore it for just that day she bought it i told her ok send it to me and as long as its not worn i will send her another size , she then goes on she would rather come here to me and i just ignore that and tell her here is my address and she says ok i will mail it to you.
a few days later on sunday nite i get a message call me i wrote your address down but i can't read it?i call her back she read the add its right. she then goes on saying my otherhalf says this is a bad business deal?i say to myself wtf?she goes on to say she don't feel good about sending it to me> i ask her whats wrong?she distrusting of sending me anything but she says ok but u have to call me the day you recieve my ring?again i say wtf and say ok i will call you when i get the ring back from you l
whats next will she tell me to, call her after i mail it then call me again and say this ring don't fit?i think i am to nice of a guy .she can kiss my A$$$$$ after i mail her a new ring no more !!!!!!!!!

[susien]

I would tell her to mail it "return receipt requested" and leave it at that. I would also make sure I mailed it back the same way with restricted delivery, making HER be the one that signs for it. This does not sound like a good deal to me and I see problems in the future if you do not have HER signature on the package you mail back to her. Good luck!!!

OR
Look at your schedule and see if you are going to be doing another show close to her and if so, suggest that she bring the ring there. Maybe she will bring those friends that love the ring with her and they can buy some also.

[mark]

I will most likey get this back tommorrow if she mailed it tues. i will then call her like i promised that i recieved it she better not ask me to call her when i mail it cause she can buzz off. i will not do it and the ring better not show signs she was wearing the ring or she gets it back and no exchange.i will mail it back Delivery Confirmation like i alWAYS DO NOT GOING TO PAY FOR A SIGNATURE its like $3 this was only a $35 sale and already going to cost me $2-3 to sent it back to her. i don't think she will say she never received it but you never know but she might say now the size i sent don't fit and drive me nuts well lets see what happens not losing sleep over it!

[mark]

:oMy pain in the A$$ customer called me today telling me she sent the ring back today and reminding me i had to call her when i get the ring,this lady is going to be a royal pain in the A$$.will be glad to get rid of her and hope after i send back i never hear from her again i hope!in all these years i have never had a customer like her and hope i never get one like her again!

[weesewcute]

I think your first clue was a post dated check. I get this kind of crap all the time. I get one lady that calls me and tells me she wants a Elmo skirt and has to have it right away. I invoice her and she never pays it. Then she emails me and tells me that she will come out to my next venue and pick it up. She never shows up. Then she tells me that she will come next week and never shows up again. I email and invoice her again and she never pays it.

I had some lady last week email me and ask if she could exchange a pair of pants for a smaller size. I have one so I say ok. She emails me and tells me that she will come out to pick them up at my next venue. I never see her and never hear from her again. I am sure at some point she will pop up and say that she wants to exchange again and at that point I will say nope! I think the first clue was the post dated check.

[mark]

well i mailed her a new ring i <exchanged for a smaller size> i sent it out the same day i received it>she called me the next day that she received it and thanked me. so hopefully we well not be bothered by her again.we will see!